Thursday, February 24, 2011

Ruminations

Will I ever find myself in the process of growing up? (I know, how can it be that I am still growing up?... Perhaps I should say, aging... haha.)

In this process, do joyous gains always have to be accompanied by painful losses (in terms of relationships, people)?

Will I ever know what I want in life?

Will I ever find the answers to my questions?
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Wednesday, February 23, 2011

In bocca al lupo

which means, literally, 'into the mouth of a wolf'. It's an idiom which means 'good luck' (don't ask me why, I've already asked my Italian colleagues and it seems that it could be related to the story of 'The little Red Riding Hood' but no one knows exactly why). And to this, one should not say 'Grazie' (thank you) in reply but 'Crepi!' which means 'May it die!'.
And my Italian colleagues went on to tell me that another Italian idiom for good luck is 'In culo alla balena!' (Into the ass of a whale!), and the response to which is 'Speriamo che non caghi!' (Hope it doesn't defecate!) hahaha... Funny huh? They added that this is a more 'vulgar' idiom and I shouldn't use it, for example, when talking to my boss.
A quick search online led me to a page with Italian proverbs on Wikiquote and there was another variant to say good luck: 'In groppa al riccio!' (On an hedgehog's back!), and the appropriate response is 'Con le mutande di ghisa! (Wearing underpants made of cast iron!)
Learning a new language is tough (a lot of brain cells have to be summoned in the process which proves more difficult the older one gets), but is very interesting seeing how it brings me that bit closer to the culture, and hopefully, when I can understand more and speak, its people. :)
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Thursday, February 17, 2011

Of work, new friends and settling in

After almost a month of sitting at my desk staring at journal articles (and them staring right back at me!), I've started real work. Work that involves pipettes, lab coats, gloves, the dreaded googles, the lab bench, cell culture and microbiology labs. Exciting...! :)

My first experiment, just completed today, waiting quietly for analysis next week in the -80°C freezer. And we've also transformed some E.coli this week. 'Transformation', I like that word. :D

And one of the best things that's happened since I've started work here in the institute is that I've met a group of really nice and fun fellow scientists, none of them from my department, most of them from the robotics labs. We seem to be on the same wavelength and have since hung out together quite regularly, for coffee break, lunch, dinner and movie etc. They have really been very welcoming to me and are now including me in the group's activities. We are mostly foreigners, with the exception of one Italian girl who joins us sometimes.

I don't think all the Italians are unfriendly (or dislike foreigners though I've heard that there's a group of Italian fascists here in the institute), it's just that I don't think I'd ever get into the cliques in my department because I don't speak their language (just yet, I hope I would be able to speak it in the near future). They have lunch and coffee breaks in their own little cliques. Although I've tried to join them for lunch sometimes but because all the conversations are in Italian, I can only sit in silence, minding my own business. So lunch break with our foreigner clique is the highlight of my work day. ^_^ I am really glad I got to know them, otherwise I would be right lonely here in the institute. But even as I got to know them, I hear that most of them are almost done with either their PhDs or close to the end of their contracts here. I am already feeling a bit sad just thinking of the inevitable farewells.

I've been bunking with a good friend of mine for the time being, until Steffen is back and can fix the rusty bath. It's really nice to have a friend for a flatmate now but I can't wait to move into the flat which I can call my own and really settle down, not having to live out of suitcases. Just over a week till I can start doing that. Looking forward to it. So much that has to be done in that place before it looks like a home. And so many things I want to do... I want to start doing some sports again soon (else I'm not going to fit in my clothes!! The horror!!!), and I miss taking pictures. Weather's not been very good lately, lots of rain. I wish I could learn to have a better eye for capturing not obviously beautiful scenes. Some of my friends take such amazing pictures! And of cos' I want to take more time to learn Italian.

It's not been the easiest journey getting here (as I have lamented so many times before, the Italian bureaucracy is, as I and many others who've experienced it, a complete nightmare) and I'm glad that support from loved ones have not let me give up on what will be (I hope) a fanastic learning experience.

"I discovered I always have choices and sometimes it's only a choice of attitude."
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