Wednesday, October 26, 2005

No internet access!!!

Would love to write about my fab weekend, but since finishing work last Friday, I no longer have internet access...

Am writing now in my colleague's computer. I came back to the office to get some stuff that I forgot last Friday and to use the computer but was dismayed to find that my account is already deactivated and I can't use my computer anymore! :( And naturally, my colleague uses the French keyboard so my typing is agonizingly slowwww... My keyboard was also French (as in the characters are organized in the French way - A & Q change places, W & Z change places, M is beside L instead of N and all the punctuation marks are in different places, imagine that...) but I changed the computer to use an English keyboard so I could type w/o staring at the keyboard.

Anyways, I'll try to go to some internet cafe to update or go to a friend's place to use the internet.

So, I finally confirmed my ticket! My flight's SQ 333, arriving at 7.20am ( I think it'll be in Terminal 2, the lady on the phone didn't tell me) on 20 Nov. It's too early so I won't expect any of you gerls/guys to be there. We'll just meet up after ya! :D
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Friday, October 21, 2005

Je suis trise... :( C'est la vie...

My last day of work and I am feeling sad sad... I sent out some emails to say bye, went to some offices to say bye to people...

Cleared my desk.

:(
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Thursday, October 20, 2005

Je fais de toi mon essentiel

My 2nd last day at work.

Colleagues came to tell me yesterday to come earlier today. I knew why, cos' they've done it for the other 'Singaporean' colleagues before me. A farewell breakfast. What surprised me was that they also told me they had something in mind to get for me, have been thinking about it for a week already but they didn't know if I would like it. So they decided to just ask me. So cute hor? :) They want to buy me a ticket to a musical 'Le Roi Soleil', which is about Louis XIV, the most powerful king in the history of French Monarchy. There was a French song I liked very much by a group called 'Le Roi Soleil' and I didn't know it was the same group (or troupe as they say in French) that is doing the musical. They knew of the song I liked and so the reason for thinking of buying me a ticket. So very sweet and thoughtful of them! I told them I would love it and as long as they don't spend too much for it. My colleague, Eric smiled and said (in French), ca c'est pas ton probleme.

We had a nice breakfast of pain au chocolat, brioche au chocolat and pain au raisins plus juices, tea and coffee. I felt really sad though. I didn't feel so sad before today. The petit dejeuner just drove home the fact that tomorrow's my last day and I may never see my colleagues again. Sighz... All good things must come to an end. Is that it? :'(

They gave me a card, signed by everyone in the building (Except my supervisor. Said he would give me a post-it to stick in my card. Ha! His trademark! :D Everything on post-its!). And in the envelope, there was a ticket to the musical. And a CD by Le Roi Soleil. With all the songs in the musical. They told me to listen carefully to the cd before I go for the musical so I could better understand.

2 of my female colleagues are going with me for the musical. :)

I am so gonna miss them!!! Waaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh!!!!

Not looking forward to tomorrow.

But since I will not be leaving Paris immediately, I would come back to see them again before I go. And make a cake and some finger food for them when I come back.
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Tuesday, October 18, 2005

Sciences. May I never fall out of love with it.

Last weekend went by pretty well.

Met up some friends for a Jap dinner, at a restaurant which they recommended was very good and are opened by real Japanese! I was quite skeptical but wanted to see if they were right. So off we went! The decor of the restaurant impressed me. It was pretty well-done, it almost got me there. But the waiter did not look Japanese at all. And as I listened to the staff speaking to one another, they did not speak Japanese. Just because they spoke a Chinese dialect, my European friends think it's Jap (since it doesn't sound like Mandarin). haha... Well, I suppose it's like me not being able to differentiate the European languages from one another, with the exception of French.

They didn't believe me that the staff were speaking a Chinese dialect and not Japanese so they decided to ask the waiter. And got the same answer. *smug smile* Hey, hey, I learnt Jap before. (Though sadly, most of it has been returned to the teacher due to lack of usage. Am hoping that my French would not end up like that after I go home...)

Prices were a little higher than the 2 restaurants I've been to in Paris. Food was so-so. Nothing to talk about. I've had better. But as they were raving to me about how good it was and proudly asked me, so it was good eh? I told a white lie and said yeah, of cos!

After getting home, pretty cousin of very dear friend from whom I am renting the room from had a girlfriend over and they said they wanted to go to a nearby discotheque later (it was already 1130pm when I was speaking with them) and asked me if we wanted to join them. We were tired but we were curious so decided to go have a look. It was already 1 am when we left the house. Good thing the place is 5 min away by foot.

I didn't have any dressy stuff (no party clothes or pretty heels) so I just wore my normal stuff, a sleeveless white T-shirt, blue jeans and my adidas sport shoes. Hahaha... ya, I know that's not what most girls would wear for clubbing but well, I was too lazy to dig (and try to find) stuff out of my suitcase!

The bouncer almost didn't let me in! 'No baskets!', he said. (Baskets is French for sports shoes) Only when the 2 pretty girls plead for me did he concede and say (in French), 'This is the first and last time. The next time I won't let her in.'
It was huge!!! 4 storeys (5 in our terms since in Europe they count the ground floor as 0)! However the dance floor was only on the ground floor and the rest had tables and chairs for people to sit. (In the day, the place is a restaurant and in the night it is a club.)

Oh, forgot to write the name of the place... Barrio Latino, it's called. So naturally, the music was kinda latin-ish. :) Quite nice.

We didn't really dance. Just sat at a table on the 1st floor (2nd in our terms) and watched the dancing crowd and tried to talk to one another.

Went home at about 3 am when the discotheque started to close. The other 2 girls went on to another discotheque in Champs Elysees. So energetic!!!

Think I slept around 4 am after showering and getting my hair to dry.

Naturally woke up very late (like noon) on Sun. ;p Sun was great too! Went to Cite des Sciences et de l'Industrie cos' it was Fete de la Science and the Science Centre was free! Spent the whole afternoon there and I felt like a kid again. Exploring Sciences. Brought back fond memories of primary school days. Reminded me of the basics. The reason I chose to do Science.

There were lots of children there but also a lot of adults. It was a really great Science centre. Needless to say, very very big. And also very well equipped with various interesting devices. There was even a playhouse for little children where they could pretend they are construction workers with helmets and bricks building houses and stuff like that. They were really cute to look at! ^_^ Wish there was something like that to play in when I was young...

A really well-spent weekend, I would say. :) Am glad it was. Since time here is running out on me...
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Monday, October 17, 2005

J'aime...

I love watching the white trails planes leave behind on a cloudless blue sky. (Why don't I get to see this in Singapore's skies?!? Too hot??)
I love the red, brown, yellow, orange colours of autumn.
I love stepping on dried brown leaves.
I love the crunching sound they make when I step on them.
I love all 4 seasons!
I love walking on and on and not perspiring at all! :p
I love strolling along the little streets with old old buildings.
I love lighting scented candles in the room.
I love watching 'Friends' with close friends and laughing out loud together.
I love learning new words in French through conversations.
I love shopping with my girlfriends.
I love chocolates.
I love cheese.
I love eating. (Enuff said.) Hee. :)
I love cooking for loved ones. When I feel like it that is. ;p
I love to hear you laugh, so I find ways to make you laugh. ^_^
I love sharing stuff with you.
I love you holding me close/me holding you close.
I love my little nephew.
I love my family.
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Thursday, October 13, 2005

Umemployment O_o

There was a short meeting yesterday afternoon where the CSO (Chief Scientific Officer) delivered a very bad news. 22 people out of the 93 employees here in the company will lose their jobs. That's like 24 percent! That's the result of the merger earlier this year, lack of funds, revenues, blah blah blah... Everyone looked ashen as they left the room. I felt like I was looking from outside a window in. Because I am not affected by this (since I am not technically an employee of this company, am free labour for them bascially). Even then, as I looked at the colleagues who have been so nice to me, I felt really sad. The CSO left promptly after his announcement (more like trying to escape a scene of disaster asap, i think) and there were further announcements about the postitions that will be removed.

There are 2 posts in the laboratory (the DMPK department) above our laboratory that will be removed. 2 very nice ladies who are in those 2 positions. Sighz... My first time feeling a 'retrenchment' (or 'economic licensing' is what they say in French I think) hit so close to home.

That's why some people say it's risker to work in a private company, I guess. I believe in Singapore, they tend to retrench the people in higher positions and who are much older first right? Here, because of the strong presence of the Union and their more pro-employee society, the company tends to choose the younger employees who are single (not married, no kids) to retrench first. Cos' then they wouldn't have to pay more to retrench the employee. I think this is quite a good system to protect the employees, especially the older ones, since it is more difficult for them to find a new job once retrenched. However, it bodes bad news for the younger, singles. (a girl-friend/colleague here seem to be one of the 'victims')

Another thing I found out about their pro-employee/people system is that unemployed people (French citizens or those with the proper work visas) are able to get a considerable sum of money (80% of their last net salary) each month from the government (s'appel chomage en francais) for a period of up to 18 months (if I didn't remember wrongly) while they are 'looking for a new job'. When I first heard that from my colleague about this, I was like 'Wow'! That's pretty cool! Imagine sitting at home (whether or not you are fervently looking for a new job) and getting $$$! But then again, the French pay a considerable amount of their salary towards taxes (a hefty 25%!!!) which includes the chomage. (I apologise for not using the correct accents- the o should be accented- in the French words I write cos' I don't think I can write alphabets with accents in blogger)

A very bad thing about this chomage system is that you then get quite a lot of people sitting around doing nothing and receiving $ from the government. I believe this is the case in a lot of other countries such as Australia. I know one lady personally, who told me she refuses to work for less than a certain amount of $, and just sit around at home waiting for that Dream job to drop into her lap (i.e. she does nothing to search for a job, no looking at newspapers or stuff like that whatsoever). And how she could do this while still paying her rent, buy food, nice clothes is cos' she gets paid through chomage. Her previous job was waitressing where she was paid well for very short working hours (cool job eh? Too bad not everyone of us can get something like that. She's pretty, I tell you!). Cos' of, ehmm, special relations to the owner of the restaurant. And she is expecting to find another job like that. I was talking to her one day and she mentioned to me that one of her girl-friends is looking for some girls to work in a boutique, so I asked her, hey why don't you try that one out? She told me that the salary for that job is the same as what she gets now through chomage and the working hours are quite long, so why should she take that job when she could stay at home and do nothing and still get paid? I had nothing to say. It sounds reasonable, but to me also very dumb. I am not one who can sit around at home doing nothing for long periods of time. Even if I were not to work, I think I would try to do some stuff with myself rather than stay cooped up at home all day and then complain that life sucks, I'm depressed and stuff like that (yes, she does that, if that's what you are thinking). Once, cos' she takes some very strong medicine for her migraines and depression that knocks her out for almost a day after, she missed an interview for a waitressing job at a good restaurant. O_o

Eh, I think I've digressed quite a bit. Leave you guys to ponder about the big differences in the European/American/Australian/New Zealand system verus ours... I've spotted quite a lot. And as always, both have their good and bad.

Have a great weekend! A lundi!
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Wednesday, October 12, 2005

Moved!

Have moved! Last Sat.
Had a whole lot of stuff that I couldn't fit into my lugguages and were stuffed into plastic bags. Hope I won't have as much when I go back home. Mostly are foodstuff that my mum sent me through people who came to visit. She was worried I would starve if she didn't send me food. Hee. So sweet of her, hor? ^_^
The first few days I couldn't sleep very well and ended up with a terrible headache on Mon which rendered me unable to come to work so I stayed home and slept. But it's better now. Am now getting accustomed to the new place. (Though the climbing up and down of 6 flights of stairs still needs some getting used to. O_o)
The new place's much smaller than my last one, and less equipped, but after cleaning it up and adding my personal touches around, it's really quite good. It's also much cheaper and I don't have to share with a disgusting housemate (the most important point)!!! Another good thing about it is that the location's really good! Near the heart of Paris. A pretty and busy area, with shops and restaurants on every single street and corner. Too bad I've only got a short time left to live in this place.
I like that I could just take one metro line straight to work and not have to take 3 lines (change twice) like I used to. :)

Used-to-be-nice landlady (remember an earlier entry?) suddenly turned all witchy/bitchy the Friday night before I moved and also on Sat morning when I left. Really amazing, how one could just change like that... Guess money really does motivate people! (My logic being that since I am leaving and would no longer be her client, she thus reverts to her true self.) I never did anything to her or to the apartment but she was just incredibly rude and horrible!!! Landlord stood around silently while she did her 'stuff'. I sure was glad to get out of there!

Spent the whole of that Sat cleaning up the new place and unpacking. Dead tired at the end of the day so did nothing else. Had lunch with a couple of friends in their apartment on Sun. The wife made very nice crepes for dessert! I put Nutella on mine!!! Yummy!!! =D Will get recipe from her so I can make my own when I go home! Their place was very nicely furnished and cozy.

Oh ya, about that arts fest I mentioned before, it wasn't an arts fest, I was mistaken. I went there on Sun evening after church and found out it was a Fete des Vendanges de Monmartre where there were many different stalls selling food specialties of different regions in France. It was a little like our pasar malam, only there are different stuff in every stall. It was so very very crowded, I didn't want to try to squeeze my way through so I just ended up looking at a couple of stalls quickly. The evening was beautiful and since the place was at the top of a hill, I stood around with very dear friend for a bit. A cresent moon was hanging in the sky which was a light baby blue with bands of pink, orange coloured by the setting sun, and the 'picture' was perfect. Again one of those many times I wish I had brought my camera. :( Blame it on my laziness to carry a bag!

So, that was my last weekend. Am eagerly awaiting the arrival of this weekend! Nothing planned, only that I don't want to have to drag my lazy ass out of bed to go to work! Ha! ;p
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Friday, October 07, 2005

Horrigible restaurant experience

Been reading through a friend's old archives (blog). Came across an entry that reminded me about a similar incident I experienced in an Italian restaurant here in Paris last Sat. It was the 2nd time I was there (and definitely the last time too) with very dear friend and his cousin (a very pretty lady) for dinner.

Our server was a bald-headed brown-skinned man. He wasn't too nice (in my opinion) when we said we didn't want any desserts. He kept trying to push me into having something (I wonder why he picked on me. Hmm... unless my sweet tooth is that obvious. Heh.) And he made this rather rude (again in my opinion) sound (something like 'phoo') when I said, 'no thank you' to everything he suggested. I was just too full (which is just an excuse by the way. Ha. I can fit in a dessert anytime! ^_^ The main reason's self-enforced diet, so can't have any. Bleagh.) to have any desserts. Then he left to go to the computer, printed out our bill and left it on our table (and without a bill folder at that) when we didn't ask for it. i have worked in numerous restaurants during my student life and so have my friends, and we have never seen this being done before. It's just so rude! Like saying, 'So, if you are not having any desserts, then get out of here!' O_o

The thing is, we are not done yet! Yes, we have finished our pizzas, but we each still have a glass of wine and a quarter bottle unfinished. And all we wanted was to sit and chat peacefully until we finish our wine. But no, the stupid server came and asked us if we could leave soon cos' they have a lot of customers waiting. The nerve of that guy!!! I've never had customer service as 'good' as this! Man!!! We pointed to our wine and said we still have not yet finished but he stood there and insisted for us to go! Very dear friend responded well when he said, ' You know what, I don't care!' The stupid server left reluctantly.

Boy, were we pissed! I asked my friends if they do complains here in Europe and I explained how in Singapore I would have asked for the manager and complained.

The cousin then signalled for the manager to come over and they asked him if it is normal to ask customers to leave before they are done with their wine. He said no and stood there quietly looking apologetic and I could also see he was really pissed with the waiter who served us. Very dear friend asked for an expresso so he took the offending bill away and went off to get the expresso. However, he didn't offer to get anything on the house to pacify us (usually in Singapore, managers, at good restaurants that is, would offer to buy something on the house to pacify angry customers. I've been working in restaurants almost all my grown-up school days so I should know). But well, apparently it doesn't work like that here in Paris. Anyways, we decided to be forgiving and after finishing our wine, we asked for the bill (from a different waiter, just one that happened to walk by). That waiter who served us didn't even dare/want to bring it to us, he just printed it and passed it to the guy we asked.

As we walked out of the restaurant, there was quite a long queue and the cousin shouted out, 'Well, Parisians really don't know where to eat!' I pointed out amist laughing that we had just eaten and walked out of the restaurant. Haha...

Anywayz, will definitely not go back there again.
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Wednesday, October 05, 2005

tick tock

Din do much the last 2 weekends. Basically bummed around at home. On the 24th Sept, I chanced upon a military exhibition while on the way to the bank with a friend. It was pretty impressive, what with the jets, helicopters, parachutists, guns, tanks, other great big vehicles and equipment that I have no idea what they are called... That was probably the most happening thing since these last 2 weeks. And this last Sun as I was happily lazing around at home, I forgot it was the first Sun of the month and thus missed a chance to visit the museums. Sighz... Was kicking myself late Sun afternoon when I realised this.

Hope I would get out this weekend. Think there's some kind of art fest this coming weekend. Will try to go for that. After I move. :( Gotta move out of my lovely room this Sat cos' China housemate going back to Singapore before me (due to the fact that he hasn't taken any leave to go anywhere, he's taking his leave now to go back earlier. My official last workday is 31st Oct, though I would finish before that cos' I still have a week's worth of leave.) and I can't afford to pay for the whole apartment on my own. Have found a cheaper place near the heart of Paris (very good location!). It's a small room in very dear friend's cousin's small rented apartment, not nearly as nice as my room now but will do for just a month plus. And as the apartment is on the 6th storey and the building has no elevator, I will get the much-needed exercise before I go home. *smiles rather reluctantly*

Am quite reluctant to move cos' I've gotten very comfortable in my room so inertia is a problem. I would have to try to adapt to the new place all over again. :(

Feels like Time is speeding by, leaving me running wheezingly behind to try to catch up... As the days get shorter, and the day of my return home is ever pressing near, I feel a little subdued, a little morose. I really do miss my family and friends back home. But Singapore, I can always picture, in my mind's eye, how she looks like and thus, I don't really miss the country, just the people I love. It's a little different here because She is still so new, ao awww-inspiring, and I know even as I step into the Charles de Gaulle airport, before the plane leaves Paris' soils, I would already miss her and the people and things I've come to love and cherish here. :'(
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Tuesday, October 04, 2005

That much closer to a quarter of a century OLD

Thoroughly enjoyed myself (very amused) on Thurs. Lunch was pretty good. Had kway teow dry (was supposed to be meepok dry but they ran out of meepok) in a Chinese place. Apparently these are special dishes (read: not on the printed menu :p) catered to the flight crew from Singapore since it's so near to the hotel they stay in and they all go there. Somehow being around so many Singaporeans and Malaysians (On a different note, personally I think, since half of the crew of SIA is made up of Malaysians, they should change the 'Singapore girl' slogan), it felt like I was back in Singapore, especially since they speak such good Singlish! ^_^ Haven't heard that for a while now.

Afterwards, it was a whole lot of fun watching them go crazy in Galerie LaFayette. Prada, Gucci, Louis Vuitton... 'Aaah! cheap cheap cheap!!!' they went. (kinda reminded me of chickens... wonder why? :p) Ya, 450 euros for a small handbag is so cheap! O_o I had to hold my jaw to keep it from dropping!

My cousin, cousin-in-law, a friend and I decided to leave the girls to their luxurious shopping and go back to the hotel. We spent some time chit-chatting before I headed home.

Very dear friend cooked seafood spaghetti for me (one of his best dishes) and I had a sip of the pretty rosy gassy wine (a cross between champagne and wine and cheaper than champagne. I had refused to let him buy champagne for me cos' it's expensive and I can't drink anyway. But he insisted it is significant and important to drink to my birthday. Well, the excuses guys come up with to drink! ^_^) My friend was too kind and invited my housemate to join us for dinner and all through dinner, he was telling my friend crap about Singapore that made me really pissed! (Stuff like the ancestors of the Chinese in Singapore were very poor and of the lowest class in China, Singapore has no culture to speak of, etc etc... But look at that as*hole now! He has to come to 'lowly' Singapore to work! Why not stay in China, ase!?! What is the Singapore government thinking???? Granting PR to these disgusting Chinamen!!!) But since I was so tired and it was supposed to be my day, I decided to let the 'xiao ren' off.

Friday was a very relaxed day. I went over to the hotel early in the morning to pick up my cousin and cousin-in-law to go to my place for lunch and found them still lazing in bed watching a pirated VCD. It was not till 11am that they got themselves out of bed. By the time we got the grocery shopping done and arrived at my place, it was noon. We were quite hungry by then and were munching on snacks as we prepared lunch. I made oven-grilled chicken with vegetables for them from scratch! It was my first time making this using a friend's recipe. Was a little worried it'll turn out unedible but it was actually pretty good! Phew!!! At least that's what they told me... My cousin really liked my room cos' it feels warm and cozy... I really do like my room here. And that she said I seemed more grown-up and independent made me feel all warm and proud! =)

Since it started raining quite heavily after lunch, we bummed at home. And they were quite happy to do just that. :p My cousin-in-law and I watched a dvd on my laptop while my cousin fell asleep on my bed halfway into the movie. It was great having family on my birthday... The end of the day seemed to come too fast. They went back to the hotel after we had dinner together at that same Chinese place. She promised she'd try to get a flight change to come here again. My cousin helped me bring some clothes back and my cousin-in-law managed to persuade me into letting him 'help' me bring back (and put it in their place for the time being) a very beautiful photoframe in which there are pictures of his son, my nephew. Haha... I mean, they are going to see him once they get back. He even tried taking photos of the photos in the frame! It doesn't matter that I already said I would send him the soft copies! Hee hee... I miss them already.

I received some thoughtful presents (Thanks guys!) and a very pretty, wonderfully sweet-smelling bouquet of roses (although I don't usually like roses, these ones are very beautiful).
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